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Thursday, December 4, 2008

More About the Heart Attack


Julie remembered that the two of us had gone to the market in her car. On our way home, David was dropping off the Belliston's at their home. He waived us down and told us that Dad was at the hospital. Julie took me straight there. She went home and put away the groceries. Then she started calling everyone. (Melanie flew home.) When David got cleaned up they came up to the hospital. They drove to Provo in Julie's car.

Do you all remember that, just before Dad left Provo, his doctor gave me a prescription for pneumonia because he did not want Dad to get it from me?

Thank you. It is helping put it all together for me. I wonder why I didn't write something down at the time? Love, M

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Do you remember when Dad had a heart attack?‏

What do you remember about the time that Dad had the heart attack? Do you remember what you were doing? 

Dad had been at Scout Camp by Mona Reservoir with David and the troop. He had run up a hill, there was also something about rolling a log up the hill, as I recall. He could not get his breath afterward. David told him that he thought Dad was having a heart attack. They loaded up and drove home. 

I remember being home, in the kitchen, when David came running in the house to tell me about it. Dad had driven to the hospital and David had driven home. I am not certain who had dropped off the other scouts, Dad or David. Shawn and Dad remember that Shawn drove to the hospital and gave Dad a blessing. Shawn said he had come to Nephi to study. (I think he had a paper due.) I went right to our hospital, which was located at the old site at the time, and stayed with Dad while he was treated in the emergency room. I think, but am not certain, that Shawn may have driven me there. I then rode with Dad to Utah Valley Regional Medical Center in the ambulance. The ambulance crew were very kind to me, I will always remember that. I think I was in shock and needed kindness.

The doctor there said that Dr. Bessingdorfer had done all the best things for Dad and had kept him from having long-term disability. It was not the same day that they decided to do a die test, was it? I remember that David and I were waiting together in the waiting room when they came to get me to tell me that Dad had died and they had shocked his heart back into action. I had to sign a paper, they did not trust Dad's ability at that point, giving the doctor permission to place a stent. They asked Dad if he wanted to go back to his room and wait and he said he preferred to wait where he was. He had to be scheduled in. However, the doctor pulled some strings at the facility and Dad underwent the stent placement that day. I asked what would happen if the stent was not placed and the doctor told me that Dad would surely have another heart attack and, perhaps, a second one would kill him. I asked what would happen if they did do the surgery. He told me that, most likely, Dad's heart would quit again but that they would just start it up once again. I signed the paper.

I do not know how anyone else got to the hospital in Provo. Did Julie, Kirsten and David come up with Shawn? Did Shawn drive his own car and one of the others of you drive our car? It is a muddle for me. 

I remember staying with Dad in recovery that night. He did not like having his leg weighed down and did not understand why the nurses wanted to put burn salve on his chest. He did not know that the shocking paddles had burned his skin. I also remember being very tired and very scared. I also remember, that somehow, you all got to the hospital and you all were loving and caring. You fed me and made sure I had clean clothes. I just don't know how it all happened. 

Hopefully, you will all remember and can fill in the missing blanks for me.

Love, M

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Nanci Meets Her Bio-Mom

Nanci Done wrote: I don't make it a habit to send out group emails, especially when the subject is a matter so close to the heart.  

With that said...

Tomorrow is the day I have been waiting for, my entire life!  I will finally meet my bio-mom!!  I don't possess the words in my vocabulary to adequately describe my excitement!!  I am blessed beyond measure that I have been received with such love, open arms and welcomed into this family.  

During this journey, that all of you have been such an integral part of, I have become humbled, beyond belief, at how each and every person that my path has crossed, has brought so much to my life and how important the timing of each encounter with each person has been!  I only pray, that in some way, I have or will be able to give to each of you, even a morsel of the love, strength and support that each of you have given to me. When I reflect on my life, all the wonderment and struggles included, I can now see, why each and every experience needed to take place and take place when it did.  It's like a gigantic "connect-the-dot" puzzle.  I'm off to connect, yet another dot!!

My deepest gratitude to each and everyone of you, for just being you!!!  I love you!  I treasure you!  And I thank you for all of your love, support and patience with me throughout this journey!

xoxo
Nanci.. your daughter; your mom; your wife; your step-mom; your sister; your friend; your neighbor



Myrna wrote: We are excited for you. Mom Helen is also excited. When she was here on Thanksgiving, she was so happy that she was just bubbling. It is an interesting time in your life. I can't even begin to imagine how you feel. 

We love you, as always. We wish you happiness in all of your tomorrows.

Love,
Auntie Myrna and Uncle Tim

Gordon and Punctuation


Myrna wrote: "Grammar Gaffes and How to Avoid Them" by Marg Gilks is a great article. I recommend it to all. Just look it up on the internet at writing.com.


Gordon wrote: I appreciate the hints.  The problem is, I just don't give a damn.  I put the commas right where they make sense to me, and that makes me feel good.  I guess I will just drive someone who is has commaphobia crazy.

When I write my book, I will have you proof it for me.  I write peoms often.  I don't dare let you look at them.

Love,

Gordon



Myrna wrote: I like poetry. You should let me read some of yours. Poetry has its own life. It doesn't have to follow rules--some poetic structure--but few rules. If you like it, then it is good. Oddly, it is the folks who really just write because they have something to say who become rich and famous. The rest of us get lost in rules.

Love, M

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Christmas Light Parade and Lighting Ceremony

Here we are, Myrna and LHT, at the edge of the fence around the Old Mill Park just after the lighting ceremony and the light parade on Saturday (Nov. 30) evening. It was a lot of fun and the city is really brilliant. The Veteran's Memorial, Rose Park, Old Mill Park, City Park, the city buildings and the area where the FS kiosk is located are all decorated. It is beautiful. We were surprised at the turn-out and at how many entries there were in the parade. Dad said they just kept coming and coming. One fellow, standing nearby, said it was better than the Ute Stampede Big Parade. I think he was right. Of course, there wasn't as much candy.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

New Toy

Grandpa T has a new toy. He bought it, of course, so that the grandchildren (and their parents) would have something to do when they come to visit. It doesn't hurt that it also has a snowplow. We all know that LHT digs out half the town with every snowfall.

Kyle and Koda


In the photo, Koda and Kyle are playing catch in the backyard. Koda, as you all know, is the Colorado Trauntvein family dog. He couldn't live with David and family because they are, for the next six months, leasing a home. Therefore, he has taken up temporary residence with us. Kyle was most happy to have a new friend to play with when he comes to visit. I think Koda likes it as well. I have found that Koda is a picky eater. He only likes one brand of dog food. Go figure!

Myrna's Baby Photo


Taken of Myrna on July 12, 1941. I was born on December 24, 1940.


Melanie wrote:

Mom,

Isn't the date supposed to be July of 1941 and not 1940? I think you would have been embrionic at the date you stated. :-)

Happy Birthday, Todd and Mikaela

Happy Birthday to two awesome people who just happen to share a birthday. Another wonderful person, Grandma Smith, shared the same birthday. Maybe good things do come in threes.

Grandma Smith Quote of the Day

Grandma Smith quote: "Use your head to save your heels." 

I was thinking of that today as I was running around trying to find something I had misplaced. She was right. Studies of memory show that if you are aware when you put something down, then repeat to yourself, "I put the (whatever) in (place)," you will remember where it is. It is that mindless searching that gets to all of us. Better yet, every used item should have a home and, no matter how inconvenient it seems at the time, it needs to go to its home the minute you are done with it. So, Grandma, kudos for the quote. I'll try to remember it in the future.

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